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finlos started following Finlos Lives - My 41st Year in Review , Finlos Loves: the Five Love Languages - Part 3 , Finlos Loves: the Five Love Languages - Part 2 and 7 others
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I’m happy to welcome back Eva as co-host to which she brings her knowledge and experience for this series about the five love languages. Whether on social media or in pop-culture, it seems as if these 5 methods of giving and receiving love have become a near ubiquitous shorthand for discussing personal tastes in people and determining potential compatibility in relationships. This conversation has been broken into segments. The first segment allowed Eva to present a brief history and context for the five love languages as well as some new and emerging alternatives to that framework. In the second segment, Eva began working through each of the five love languages and their connections to patriarchy and colonialism – and included discussion about quality time, physical affection, and words of affirmation. In this, the final part of our conversation about the five love languages, we finish talking about the complexities of affirmation and how it can sometimes be used to manipulate, and finally gift giving. The episode closes with some exploration into what some of our personal love languages are as well as how love is an infinitely adaptable language that must be learned with each new relationship. We remind you that this is a show about communication both how we express communication and how we receive communication from others, because as with all parts of any relationship, communication is reciprocal. We hope you enjoy listening. Music by Luke Holizna: https://holizna.com/ Episode Notes: Honeydew Me Podcast: https://www.honeydewmepodcast.com/ If Books Could Kill Podcast: https://www.ifbookspod.com/ Anne Hodder-Shipp, Languages for Modern Love: https://www.themodernlove Sarah Deer, The Beginning and End of Rape: https://www.amazon.com/Beginning-End-Rape-Confronting-Violence/dp/0816696330 Danielle McGuire, At the Dark End of the Street: https://www.amazon.com/At-Dark-End-of-Street-audiobook/dp/B07NF286C4/ref=sr_1_1?hvadid=622529432603&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011577&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=16553123323030560905&hvtargid=kwd-397904020995&hydadcr=7633_13469281&keywords=at+the+dark+end+of+the+street+book&qid=1707530478&sr=8-1
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves: the Five Love Languages - Part 3.
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I’m happy to welcome back Eva as co-host to which she brings her knowledge and experience for this series about the five love languages. Whether on social media or in pop-culture, it seems as if these 5 methods of giving and receiving love have become a near ubiquitous shorthand for discussing personal tastes in people and determining potential compatibility in relationships. This conversation has been broken into segments. The first segment allowed Eva to present a brief history and context for the five love languages as well as some new and emerging alternatives to that framework. In this segment, Eva begins working through each of the five love languages and their connections to patriarchy and colonialism – this episode includes discussion about quality time, physical affection, and words of affirmation – though we will come back to that last one again in the final segment. We remind you that this is a show about communication both how we express communication and how we receive communication from others, because as with all parts of any relationship, communication is reciprocal. We hope you enjoy listening. Music by Luke Holizna: https://holizna.com/ Episode Notes: Honeydew Me Podcast: https://www.honeydewmepodcast.com/ If Books Could Kill Podcast: https://www.ifbookspod.com/ Anne Hodder-Shipp, Languages for Modern Love: https://www.themodernlove Sarah Deer, The Beginning and End of Rape: https://www.amazon.com/Beginning-End-Rape-Confronting-Violence/dp/0816696330 Danielle McGuire, At the Dark End of the Street: https://www.amazon.com/At-Dark-End-of-Street-audiobook/dp/B07NF286C4/ref=sr_1_1?hvadid=622529432603&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011577&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=16553123323030560905&hvtargid=kwd-397904020995&hydadcr=7633_13469281&keywords=at+the+dark+end+of+the+street+book&qid=1707530478&sr=8-1
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves: the Five Love Languages - Part 2.
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I am happy to welcome back Eva who brings her knowledge and experience as co-host for this series about the five love languages. Whether on social media or in pop-culture, it seems as if these 5 methods of giving and receiving love have become a near-ubiquitous shorthand for discussing personal tastes in people and determining potential compatibility in relationships. This is a long and detailed conversation which will be broken into segments, the first of which gives an overview of the origins of the 5 love languages, as well as some new and emerging models exploring how we express love to one-another. I am always excited for these conversations because Eva is such a thoughtful and engaging human, and I always uncover ways in which I, we still have room to grow. When we started this podcast we were dedicated to ensuring that the versions of us you hear in each episode are honest representations of the people we are in our lives and in our relationship. As such, we are evolving people with evolving ideas that reflect new experiences and knowledge acquired over time. The people we are now are not the same as the people were decades ago when we first started this relationship, or even when we started this podcast. This is a show about communication, both how we express communication and how we receive communication from others, because as with all parts of any relationship, good and effective communication is reciprocal. We hope you enjoy listening. Music by Luke Holizna: https://holizna.com/ Episode Notes: Honeydew Me Podcast: https://www.honeydewmepodcast.com/ If Books Could Kill Podcast: https://www.ifbookspod.com/ Anne Hodder-Shipp, Languages for Modern Love: https://www.themodernlove Sarah Deer, The Beginning and End of Rape: https://www.amazon.com/Beginning-End-Rape-Confronting-Violence/dp/0816696330 Danielle McGuire, At the Dark End of the Street: https://www.amazon.com/At-Dark-End-of-Street-audiobook/dp/B07NF286C4/ref=sr_1_1?hvadid=622529432603&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9011577&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=16553123323030560905&hvtargid=kwd-397904020995&hydadcr=7633_13469281&keywords=at+the+dark+end+of+the+street+book&qid=1707530478&sr=8-1
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves: the Five Love Languages - Part 1.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos (re)Lives: Hackers.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - New Year, New Cycle.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 12/18/2023.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives: Decision Paralysis.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks (about music) - with Devon.
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This is a special episode of the podcast featuring my father, Ignacio Sr. Eva, Vivienne, and sat down with him recently for this interview, the first of what will hopefully be several covering his whole life. In this episode we talk about his early life in Honduras, moving the Miami in the 1950s, his relationships with his parents, and much more.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Aks: Ignacio Fiallos.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - My 41st Year in Review.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Hurrican Idalia Edition.
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Eva co-hosts again, this time for a conversation about toxic masculinity. In doing so we try to unpack what that term actually means in a time when gender roles, identities, and expectations are being challenged- or broadened, depending on your perspective. This is a conversation that we hope you’ll hear with an open mind as it requires anyone engaging in these discussions to explore their own personal histories and identities. Toxicity is not a quality that belongs to any specific sex or gender, but instead represents a mindset that motivates behaviors that consciously or unconsciously maintains the status-quo of power dynamics in any system. It is unfortunate that the beneficiaries of that status-quo have been men or those who subscribe to or reinforce those behaviors. This conversation comes also at a time when Barbie, the recently released film, just cross the one billion dollar mark for global ticket sales and has garnered praise from many for advancing pro-feminist ideas. We’ll get into that topic as well.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Love s- Toxic Masculinity - Part 3.
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Eva co-hosts again, this time for a conversation about toxic masculinity. In doing so we try to unpack what that term actually means in a time when gender roles, identities, and expectations are being challenged- or broadened, depending on your perspective. This is a conversation that we hope you’ll hear with an open mind as it requires anyone engaging in these discussions to explore their own personal histories and identities. Toxicity is not a quality that belongs to any specific sex or gender, but instead represents a mindset that motivates behaviors that consciously or unconsciously maintains the status-quo of power dynamics in any system. It is unfortunate that the beneficiaries of that status-quo have been men or those who subscribe to or reinforce those behaviors. This conversation comes also at a time when Barbie, the recently released film, just cross the one billion dollar mark for global ticket sales and has garnered praise from many for advancing pro-feminist ideas. We’ll get into that topic as well.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - Toxic Masculinity - Part 2.
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Eva co-hosts again, this time for a conversation about toxic masculinity. In doing so we try to unpack what that term actually means in a time when gender roles, identities, and expectations are being challenged- or broadened, depending on your perspective. This is a conversation that we hope you’ll hear with an open mind as it requires anyone engaging in these discussions to explore their own personal histories and identities. Toxicity is not a quality that belongs to any specific sex or gender, but instead represents a mindset that motivates behaviors that consciously or unconsciously maintains the status-quo of power dynamics in any system. It is unfortunate that the beneficiaries of that status-quo have been men or those who subscribe to or reinforce those behaviors. This conversation comes also at a time when Barbie, the recently released film, just cross the one billion dollar mark for global ticket sales and has garnered praise from many for advancing pro-feminist ideas. We’ll get into that topic as well.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - Toxic Masculinity - Part 1.
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In this episode I explore feeling fat and all the feelings that accompany that loaded idea. Fatness and fat-phobia are intrinsic to American life, and as such I am both the recipient of harm and also guilty of perpetuating intersectionally opressive beauty standards. Music: "Death" and "Whatever Happens Between" by HoliznaCC0
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Feeling Fat.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - The Art of the F*ck Up Follow-up & Thoughts on Star Trek Picard.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - The Art of the F*ck Up - part 2.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - The Art of the F*ck Up - Part 1.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Life and Death and Love and Birth pt 3.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Life and Death and Love and Birth pt 2.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Life and Death and Love and Birth.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Healthy Attachments.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Welcome to Florida!.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - New Year Energy.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Reads - The Last Ronin.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - Holiday Magic.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks - Aarum Youn-Heil.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Teaches - Interview with a Florida Teacher.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - One Year In.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks - Virgil Suárez.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 11/05/2022 - Big D Energy or the Time I Turned 40.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Teaches: Nicholas Troyer.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 10/11/2022 - The Quiet Quit.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks - Tomi Gomory.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 9.21.2022 - Juggling.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 8.10.2022 - The End of Summer.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 7.17.2022 - Liminal Summer.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks - Alice Motes.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 6.25.2022.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks - Bobe McBride.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Lives - 06.10.2022.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Teaches: Banned Books.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks: Harry Nerenberg.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - Communication Part 3.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks - Tom Flanigan.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Teaches featuring Jen DeRemer.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks: Justin David.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - Communication - Part 2.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Loves - Communication - Part 1.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks: Avni.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Asks: Devon.
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finlos has participated in the episode Finlos Teaches: Testing.